While no one can force you into doing anything, you may be questioning whether to tell your partner about your consideration of abortion. Times like these can be confusing, and you may hesitate to open up to your partner during such a stressful time.

It may be best to be honest upfront, as you may regret not telling your partner later. Whatever option you choose will drastically impact him, and he may have some input.

Plan a Conversation

Prepping for a conversation, such as a pregnancy decision, will vary depending on your relationship. Since your partner is the biological father, he should know that he is responsible no matter what pregnancy option you decide on.

Navigating a pregnancy decision with your partner does not mean you have to stay together, but it’s important to be open and honest throughout the process.

Your Safety Matters

If there is hesitancy to share any aspect of your pregnancy or pregnancy decision with your partner due to safety, you are not obligated to share with them. For some, discussing the information when facing any form of abuse may not be the best thing right now.

If you feel like your safety is threatened right now with your partner, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for immediate assistance.

Before an Abortion

If you haven’t already, pregnancy confirmation is vital to confirm your pregnancy options, including abortion. You will need to first know if you really are pregnant and how far along the pregnancy has developed. An ultrasound will help you make a fully informed choice.

Once you confirm your pregnancy at Resources for Women, we are here to share the process of every option so you can make a confident and informed decision. Our compassionate team can discuss your options if you’d like more support.

Contact us to schedule your free initial appointment, and we will go from there. You are not alone as you decide what’s next for you.